Interpersonal
Communication Review Test #4 Spring 2004Interpersonal
Communication Review Test #4 Spring 2004
(FYI: This will be updated prior to the test)
Chapter
10 -- Friendships:
How
is friendship unique? The nature of friendships are unique because it is voluntary. They also lack institutionalized structure and guidelines
What
is a friend of a heart?
How
do women and men build friendships differently?
Friendships
need: Willingness to Invest; Emotional
Closeness (women tend to show closeness through dialogue while men tend to show
it though doing); Acceptance; Trust; Support
Understand
the “Developmental Course of Friendship” and what happens in each of the following
phases:
ü Role-limited
Interaction
ü Friendly Relations
ü Moving toward
Friendship
ü Nascent Friendship
ü Stabilized Friendship
ü Waning Friendship
Chapter
11 -- Romantic Relationships:
Text's Review of Chapter 11 (you need to select ch 11)
What
makes a committed romantic relationship unique?
How
can culture make a difference?
Why
is the balance of the dimensions of romantic relationships important? See the Triangle of Love:
Passion – Commitment -- Intimacy
What
is the difference between love and commitment?
Explain
and give examples of the styles of loving:
Agape; Eros; Mania; Ludus; Pragma;
Storge
Explain
and given examples of the organization of Romantic Relationships
Growth Stages:
Individuals; Invitational Communication;
Exploration Communication; Intensifying Communication; Revising Communication
Intimate Bonding; Navigation
Deterioration Stages:
Dyadic breakdown; intrapsychic phase;
dyadic phase; social phase; social support; grave dressing.
What
is the “Cycle of Violence” and why does the abused partner often stay in such
relationships?
(Honeymoon; tension; explosion; remorse)
Explain
the “guidelines for communication between romantic partners.”
Choice 2: List the stages of a romantic relationship development as described by Wood (both growth -up- and deterioration -down). (THEY MUST BE IN THE CORRECT ORDER). Give a one or two sentence description of what happens in each stage.
Choice 3: Pick one group's project other than your own… What are some warning signs to be aware of in this situation? What should YOU do as a friend? What can they do? Name 3 places they can go locally for this.
Choice 4: Describe the triangle of love. Define the elements of this triangle and give examples of each area.
Choice 5: What
are the colors of love? List, define and give an example of each type of love
(both primary and secondary -- don't worry about what actual color she calls
it!).
as you can see there are very few here! See the online review too.
Two friends, Mork
and Mindy, feel established in each other's life. The stage of friendship they are experiencing is called:
a.
The
honeymoon
b.
Exploration
friendship
c.
Waning
friendship
d.
Stabilized
friendship
e.
Social
support
Quinn and Peter seem to be exploring possible areas of common values and
interests to see whether they might develop a stronger friendship. The stage
of friendship they are experiencing is called:
a.
The honeymoon
b.
Nascent friendship
c.
Waning friendship
d.
Stabilized friendship
e.
Social support
Quinn and Peter
believe that every Friday night is “buddy” time and seem to almost be making
“rules” about their relationship, this is characteristic of which stage of friendship:
a.
The Honeymoon Stage
b.
Nascent Friendship
c.
Moving Toward Friendship
d.
Stabilized Friendship
e.
Waning Friendship
Stephen and Cherie have
just made their first commitment to be together and even seemed to have a special
language and culture that they shared when they were together. The description of the "good old days
of 87" demonstrates which relational development stage?
a.
Social Bonding
b.
Revising
c.
Intensifying Communication
d.
Experimenting
e.
Environmental Communication
Then Stella realizes
that Poogie is no longer calling her Pookie!
He is missing many of their weekly events. He no longer calls when he is late. She no longer communicates everything to him! WOW, Stella realizes that she and Poogie are
in this stage of their relationship:
a.
Social Support
b.
Dyadic Breakdown
c.
Experimenting
d.
Waling
e.
Grave Dressing
Barbie and Ken can only
think of each other and suddenly seem all “mushie,” they are in which phase:
a.
explorational communication
b.
intimate talk
c.
revising communication
d.
dyadic phase
e.
Intensifying
Olie and Lena are no
longer mushie and seem to have their heads out of the clouds, they are in this
stage of the developmental stages of romantic relationships:
a.
exlorational communication
b.
intimate talk
c.
revising communication
d.
dyadic phase
e.
intensifying
Suddenly, it seemed
they stopped talking at dinner; Mr. Brady wanted to watch television, Mrs. Brady
wanted him to do the dishes, but suddenly, that was a “woman’s job” and he refused! This stage is called ____________
a.
Social Support
b.
Navigating
c.
Intensifying
d.
Dyadic breakdown
e.
Intrapsychic phase
Three dimensions of committed romantic relationships, as
demonstrated by Wood’s “triangle of love” are
a.
intimacy,
commitment, and passion
b.
intimacy,
passion, and love
c.
intimacy,
warmth, and trust
d.
commitment,
love, and passion
e.
passion,
commitment, and trust
Of her marriage Myra says, "It
wasn't like we ever really fell in love. It was more like we grew together
kind of gradually. I think of my husband as my best friend." Myra seems
to have which style of loving?
a.
eros
b.
ludus
c.
agape
d.
storge
e.
pragma
B. Explorational communication
C. Navigating
D. Grave dressing
Which is a way to show closeness?
a. No communication
b. emotions
c. doing
d. all of the above
Answer: c, because you have to talk to have a successful relationship and emotions
aren't listed.
Chapter 11
Which is part of the love triangle?
a. Pragma
b. Agape
c. Passion
d. Mania
Answer: c, because the others are part of the colors of love.